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individuals demonstrate valid behavior by treating themselves and others respectfully and respecting only those who earn it |
Today, respect is a complicated issue that evokes feelings of dismay, indifference, and uncertainty. There is little, if any, respect left in our society, and some people feel that this crisis is irreversible. Others believe the notion of respect is outdated because individuals in positions of authority routinely abuse their powers. Still, there are those who are unsure of what respect actually is since formalities and decorum are no longer consistent or widely known. The Axiom of Respect not only clarifies the idea of respect but also restores its honor by differentiating between respect and respectfulness.
The Axiom of Respect gives you confidence in your interactions with others since you will know what qualifies as respectful behavior. Further, you will be able to determine who deserves your respect and who does not, regardless of their position or their relationship to you. This eliminates the guilt and frustration that accompanies feeling as though you must respect someone when, deep down, you do not. In reality, most situations only require you to act respectfully, and by separating respect and respectfulness, you will have self-assurance and peace of mind.
Treating Yourself Respectfully