The Axiom Of Respect
Individuals Demonstrate Valid Behavior
By Treating Themselves And Others Respectfully
And Respecting Only Those Who Earn It

Unbeknownst to me, America is currently engaged in a "war" on Christmas. Today in CNN's "Heated Debate Again Over 'War On Christmas' Claims," I read that our country is apparently divided into two hostile camps: those who feel the holiday season has become too secular (the "pro-Christmas side" according to Peter Sprigg of the Family Research Council) vs. those who say "holiday season" rather than "Christmas season" because they do not want to offend fellow Americans who do not celebrate Christmas (the anti-Christmas side??).

Our elected officials, ever cognizant of what is truly critical to our nation's success in these trying times, have made sure to take action on this issue: "Republican Rep. Henry Brown of South Carolina introduced a resolution this month asking that the House express support for the use of Christmas symbols and traditions and frown on any attempt to ban references to the holiday." As imperative as this fight is, it is no wonder that the battle for Christmas has left our Congress without enough time to do anything else, like actually read proposed legislation before voting on it. Oh well.

Here's a thought: How about we all stop fighting amongst ourselves over religion and start thinking of our country as a collection of unique individuals who all belong to the same great family. Our society is composed of those of many faiths (or no faith), and we each have varying traditions and symbols that are significant to us. None of these differences, however, should overshadow the fact that we are all American. Moreover, if we as a nation hope to successfully overcome present and future obstacles, this must be the tie that binds us, regardless of our religion, race, age, gender, ethnicity, or sexual orientation.

Treating others respectfully, an essential part of Magna Sententia, includes respecting the differences of others. This does not mean that we have to agree with the beliefs and practices of others; it just means that we hold ourselves to a high standard of behavior and are cordial to those around us, even if we don't agree with them.

Thus, whether you personally prefer "Merry Christmas," "Happy Hanukkah," "Happy Kwanzaa," or "Happy Atheist Kids Get Presents Day," please try to remember that others may not share your beliefs and what is truly important is a pure spirit of love and kindness, not the specific avenue by which it comes. Also, if someone wishes you a sincere "Merry Christmas," even though you do not celebrate Christmas, search for the deeper meaning of the message, a wish for your health and happiness. Focus on intent, not word choice.

I hope all of our readers have a wonderful holiday season!

Ellie Sherise
Co-Creator of Magna Sententia
Co-Author of Magna Sententia: The Logical Cure for Our Society