The Axiom Of Respect
Individuals Demonstrate Valid Behavior
By Treating Themselves And Others Respectfully
And Respecting Only Those Who Earn It

Rihanna fans around the world are reacting to the news that she and Chris Brown may be reconciling. For many, it is extremely disappointing, and for others, it even calls into question whether Rihanna remains the positive role model she has been for a multitude of young girls.

According to "Rihanna: Role Model No More?", many teen girls feel that Rihanna is "not sending the right message to kids." As 17-year-old Britteny Hughes put it, Rihanna is "making it seem like its OK to get hit by your boyfriend and get back together with him." Some are even vowing not to listen to her music in the future: "She's just retarded and I just hope she knows that I'm not going to listen to her ever again," said Maggie, a 15-year-old former fan and student at New York City's High school for Environmental Studies.

We are pleased that there are strong young women out there who do not tolerate domestic violence in any degree. Magna Sententia specifies that not only should we strive to treat others respectfully, but we must also treat ourselves respectfully, which includes protecting ourselves from unhealthy relationships.

Domestic violence typically starts with the abuser demeaning and belittling his victim, gradually escalating to controlling behavior and physical assault. If you have someone in your life who abuses you in any way, find safety immediately. You do not need this person in your life, no matter how much you think you do. True love doesn't hurt, and you are worthy of true love.

A special note to mothers: If your partner abuses you in front of your children, it is your responsibility to protect them by leaving. Please, do not allow your children to witness such destructive behavior because this greatly increases the risk that they will become abusers or victims of abuse themselves. (Chris Brown's stepfather beat his mother.)

As we stated in "Respect Only Those Who Earn It: Chris Brown Allegedly Beats Rihanna," if you are a victim of domestic violence, please seek assistance immediately. There are many wonderful, caring people throughout our country that can help you escape your abuser. (The number for the National Domestic Violence Hotline, which is open 24 hours a day in all 50 states, is 1-800-799-SAFE[7233].)

Anna and Ellie Sherise
Creators of Magna Sententia
Authors of Magna Sententia: The Logical Cure for Our Society